Someone sometime ago commented that “The most difficult thing to do is to undo something. Its easier said than done- especially when it is about breaking something you have built. Moving on from people -in whom you have invested/ willingly given your time/ attention/respect/ loyalty and of course part of your life. And what I am referring to is not just a case of broken relationships in fact many such similar cases. These decisions are hardest to take- the ones that are not just linked to your life but also of many more people around. Undoing something is all about erasing them from your life- erasing their significance/ their feel/ their control on your life. Wiping all the good/bad memories associated taxes you mentally and physically. They leave you bereaved. These decisions are like albatross around your neck- you delay taking them and become turtle like- trying to avoid and letting decisions happen themselves. It has more to do with letting yourself go down – somewhere, where you don’t belong.
Wishing strength to all those who are going through the same especially my near and dear ones who are testing their patience/ emotions at such times of crisis.
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