Sometimes I just marvel at what communication does to us. But only when the inexplicable is understood- it is the zenith of communication. While it is easy to understand what has been said- why can’t people understand what is unsaid. Just a little bit of understanding of the nature of the person and of his or her needs - can take relationships to next level. The nuances of one’s own personality and their idiosyncrasies are not a cakewalk to understand but little attempt to know the person’s intent can do wonders. There are times when we just wish to overlook the obvious- to avoid getting involved with the person but that actually takes them away. You could have made the person feel better just by recognizing his desires but no you are too deaf to hear what’s on other’s mind.
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