Pampering our own self is a prevalent scenario these days. We often hear people saying- I gifted this to myself because i liked it. Rather than conveying it in this fashion it could be put across as I bought this for myself. Why i emphasize this is because the former sentence has hidden connotation of negativity. It shows that you are devoid of a loving relationship in life- who takes care of your needs. It sends a feeling of inadequacy and pain that you have to earn your own happiness. Though this is an era of independence and we claim that we earn what we want but the desire to be loved and taken care off never severs from you. Just a little change in the way we present our thoughts can take care of people making assumptions about us.
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