Transform or Tame

It has become very easy for people to ask someone to transform as per the requirements of the situation or job but have we ever thought that this is just another attempt to kill a person’s individuality? A transformed individual goes through a melee of emotions and more than him/her accepting a changed himself/herself- it is others who suggested change – find it weird. It’s just like the saying “My girlfriend first changed my habits and then left me stating that I have changed”.  Irony is int? And this again proves that change of any sort brings resistance. I recently read about something and was particularly impressed with the practicality of the thought “We should learn to tame not transform”- which means making an attempt to bring things in control rather than changing the entire indiviudal.